Choosing a right life partner is more important than anything else on this planet. Like even if you collect all the goals of your life, career, house,group of friends and everything else that you prioritize in your life and put it on the weighing scale then too, the weight of choosing a right partner will over weigh everything else! As you have to spend the rest of your life sleeping, eating, pooping, brushing basically being with that one person( unless you believe in second marriages but then you will have to repeat all the process again! ). So I am gonna help you there but for that you need to read my blog.
This is where it all starts. So it is very important that you feel attracted towards your girl and also your heart knows that it would stay attracted for rest of the life too.
Yes, sometimes she may seem rude or harsh and just not able to compromise with her tendencies to stick to right things no matter what it cost to her. Give her a chance! To run your life without fear or suspicion it is vital to choose a honest person.
3) SENSE OF HUMOR
So, don’t you think a funny person and her ability to laugh on problems would make your life easier! Wouldn’t it be great to have a smiling partner easing the situation even when your house is burnt down to ashes! (Haha, I know bad joke.)
She is the one with whom your going to share rest of your life. Make sure that you share a friendly relationship together. Fun, Laughter,Sharing of secrets, watching movies in pajamas and simply being in your own skin in her presence.
5) HARD -WORKING
If your girl likes to stay at office on weekends than hitting a pub or disco appreciate this.It just shows that she has got her priorities straight and twenty years down the lane she will not be sleeping on the couch while you ‘d be working your ass off to buy that house! She’d be right there buying it on equal grounds.
6) NO LIES, NO GAMES
So she is not into who called whom first and doesn’t like to lie even if she had been to movie with her Ex. Wow! You have got the right girl. Never ever let her go.
7) RESPECT YOUR FAMILY
Right, she takes interest in your family and share their happiness and tries to take part in sadness. Yes man, she is the right one!
She always arrived timely on her dates and were extremely apologetic when she was just five minutes late. She is the one who never liked to keep you waiting or hung in wondering where she is. She cares dude and she will never leave your hand for rest of your life too.
Here is this girl you can leave your purse or ATM cards and she knows all your passwords (including Facebook) but you never felt worried.You know even if she will not be with you tomorrow she is never going to spill your secrets.
Okay! She ‘s not like very romantic but she takes effort for you once in a while. Her pathetic self cooked dinners and those clingy love notes everywhere in the house matters.
Yes She is a self respecting woman and you know that! She likes to buy her own dinner and offers to pay every time you go out. She never borrows money from you and declines expensive gifts. OMG! never ever let her go.
12) COMMON VALUES
It’s not necessary that you guys share same values but having common values together secure your future and helps you build solid ground for a everlasting marriage. So two shots of same espresso, bowl of Maggie at night, similar views on politics and religion and same taste in movies and art counts. Cheers!
13) MAKE TIME FOR YOU
No matter she is attending a board meeting or sleeping in her pajamas but she is always there when you need her. Dude, she prioritizes you over everything else. It’s important.
So, she is willing to go an extra mile for you without even asking. So all those efforts to hang on with your nasty friends and behave nicely to your boss, It counts!
15) PLAN FOR A FUTURE
She takes interest in you and your future.Life is not always bed of roses and she is willing to be a part of your life and play her part to support you.
16) FORGIVE AND FORGET
Love is not all about love songs and rosy flowers but also arguments, fights and some really nasty stuffs. But she is willing to forgive you and work on the relationship.
17) NO RESTRICTIONS
” If you will talk to that bitch again, I will never talk to you.” ” Don’t even try to kiss me until you get that promotions.” “Why do you want to visit your parents again and again?” No! She will never hold you back from being who you are or what you want to do.
18) BETTER PERSON
Her entry to your life will only make you a better person and improves your relationships with the world. Her presence will only push you towards doing good and forgiving people.
19) CLEAR THE TEST
You heard it right but she will be liked by your family. Your family holds your back and knows about you more than you do. So, they will sniff out a bad partner a miles away. If they approve of your choice then there’s not even an ounce of doubt about her being your soul-mate. Never even dream of dumping her!
Last but not the least, It is the most important quality to marry a person and get hooked for rest of the life. This one reason is capable enough to outweigh all the other reasons to marry her. But make sure it’s true love just not the transient infatuation.
P.S.- YOU ALWAYS RISE IN LOVE, NEVER FALL! ALL THE BEST.